well gotta good question to ask... hmms if u realise tt ur gf/bf had gone out wid his/her ex hw will u react? if u can tahan then well u r great.. if u cant well means u r ok.. becoz well i now suffering into this kinda screwed up dilema... well some ppl can be magnimonious to accept it well some ppl cant when this ppl cant they will be label as childish... well hmms i dunno hw to explain it either well my emotions are so screwed up now ok...